Our dignity and reputation counts as a basis of who we really are. Actions and words can greatly affect one's image. In fact, i am a self-centered person, but not at all times. I care for others and put one's self in others situation. Well, others think I am not supportive because they ignore of the things I can do for them.
The truth is that they must even thank me for what I have done. If it feels like it hurts me, it hurts others too. Jealousy and insecurity ARE THE CAUSES of this monstrosity. They really make things up just to change other people's view of who I am. Well, others says I have to ignore them and show no weaknesses.
Indeed, that is true. I have even learned something out of it. Despite all those I have suffered, I even thank God for giving it to me. I have seen the true color of everyone surrounding me. Fighting for my reputation and dignity is just an option.
If I do this, people will say that I am guilty of all the things they spread and made up. So, I just sat, ignored and did not talk to anyone in the room. I am not the one who will suffer, they will. Without even asking me questions, I can stand up on my own. So much events, so much to learn.
Friday, January 18, 2008
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